Vulnerability — 5 things
vulnerability is considered a weakness… fear of vulnerability is ingrained at a deep level, to our detriment, once we become adults.
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Learning Flexibility
Learning flexibility — stop making excuses for continuing to do what doesn’t work — is an important part of living the wise life It’s sad that most people rigidly behave in ways that get them what they don’t want, and then blame others or the situation, rather than their behaviour, for the problem. My first book …
Letting Go of Boxes
Letting go of boxes: we all categorize, and sometimes that’s helpful, but examining our beliefs is the mark of maturity.
No One is Coming — Life is an Inside Job
No One is Coming to rescue you from the life you have created. It’s your job to stop waiting and to begin moving in a direction you choose.
Elegant, Intimate Relating is the key
There is a structure to excellent partnerships, which we call Elegant, Intimate Relating
Seven Ways to Live in This Endless Moment
Living in This Endless Moment means finding balance, clarity and a sense of purpose and direction. Some hints!
10 Zen Principles to Help You Live Life Better
10 Zen Principles to help you live a more calm and centered life, as given to us by that famous Zen guy, Yogi Berra.
How to Communicate Better Using Dialogue
Communicate Better: Dialogue is a tool for self-exploration. It’s not a way to get others to behave, but rather a way to learn about yourself. I’ve written a ton of articles about communication and dialogue. I’ve focused on how to communicate better in all of my books, and can state categorically that good communication skills …
Fearless Living — 7 Tips
Fearless living: Many people wish to put their fears aside and to create and live a full and elegant life. In Zen, we say this is simple, as in “Simply Sit.” Or, “Pay attention!” Or, “Wake up!” Introduction to Fearless Living Many people wish to put their fears aside and to create and live a full and elegant life. In …
Tools for Relating — Having the Best Relationship Ever
Tools for Relating — it’s not enough to have some knowledge about relationships… you need tools and techniques to excel at relating. Here’s another sample chapter from my relationships book, The. Best. Relationship. Ever. Enjoy! If you’re looking for a partner that “fits you,” you owe it to yourself to read my book. Find Your Perfect Partner It’s available …
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