Find Your Perfect Partner — Find your life partner

Author: (Wayne C. Allen)

Find Your Perfect Partner

Back in 1999, I wrote a book­let called “The List of 50,” a guide on how to find your life part­ner. Part of a series of free book­lets on aspects of rela­tion­ships, “The List” was a guide to decid­ing whom you want to be in rela­tion­ship with, and then putting what you decide into action.

My clients, since then, have asked me to expand upon this con­cept of con­scious dat­ing. So, I com­plete­ly re-wrote the book­let into a 140 page book. In addi­tion to revis­ing the struc­ture and con­tents of the book­let, I have includ­ed com­ments from read­ers, as well as sam­ple Lists of 50.


You may not recall, but I met you once a cou­ple of years ago while attend­ing a ses­sion with (a client of yours who is a friend of mine) as a qui­et wit­ness of your Body­work. It was quite an intense ses­sion, and I was very hon­oured that she asked me to attend and that you did­n’t mind my pres­ence. One activ­i­ty she has shared with me is the infa­mous List of 50 . This act of pos­i­tive­ly explor­ing my needs and desires was very reward­ing. I have shared this idea with many of my friends and fam­i­ly, with many pos­i­tive results and con­struc­tive conversations.

Not sur­pris­ing­ly, this List was a key com­po­nent in dis­cov­er­ing that the per­son I wished to share my life with was in fact a very close friend of mine. He too com­plet­ed the assign­ments, and through some soul search­ing we real­ized that we were look­ing for each oth­er. Though nei­ther of us had con­sid­ered the act of mar­riage before, the idea of cre­at­ing a sym­bol­ic union nat­u­ral­ly appealed to us.

D. Christieson

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Find Your Per­fect Partner

** Paper­back book, 140 pages,
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* Pub­lish­er: The Phoenix Cen­tre Press
(Decem­ber 2012)
* Lan­guage: Eng­lish
* ISBN: 978–09877192‑1–8

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About the Author: Wayne C. Allen is known on the web as the Sim­ple Zen Guy. Wayne was a Pri­vate Prac­tice Coun­sel­lor in Ontario until June of 2013. Wayne is the author of five books, the lat­est being The. Best. Rela­tion­ship. Ever.

2 thoughts on “Find Your Perfect Partner — Find your life partner”

  1. I just felt com­pelled to thank you… I stum­bled on your web­site by acci­dent tonight, on the page for body­work for the chest and releas­ing pain stored around the heart Chakra. I felt drawn to do the exer­cise on the spot, and sud­den­ly, 2 min­utes in, had a huge emo­tion­al release of emo­tions sur­fac­ing and tears flow­ing… I am beside myself by how pow­er­ful, fast, and effec­tive this worked. I will now be fol­low­ing up on all your work, start­ing with your books. And although I regret that you are no longer host­ing a pri­vate prac­tice (con­grat­u­la­tions on your retire­ment), I am very grate­ful to have come in con­tact with these pro­found heal­ing tools. Appar­ent­ly it was exact­ly what I need­ed, at this chal­leng­ing moment in my life.
    Thank you.

    1. Hi Bryce, Thanks for the note. Glad to know that the chest release worked for you. In the body­work sec­tion ( www. there is a video con­cern­ing work­ing on the chest (part of the video series on a body­work ses­sion) that you may also find helpful.
      Do let me know how the books are for you.

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