Self-cen­tered as com­pared to self­ish  —  we need to learn to find our focus, and to bring it gen­tly back to learn­ing all there is to know about our­selves In keep­ing with this series of arti­cles, let me do a quick com­par­i­son of terms.  What I’m talk­ing about here is one’s “locus of atten­tion”  —  the […]