A Question of Intent
Knowing one’s intent is key for letting go of game playing and getting on with the core of relating. Learn how to let go of hiding your intent, as you question your motivations deeply.
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You’re on Your Own
You’re on your Own — no matter what you think is going on, your experience is being invented by you.
Getting over Yourself
Getting over Yourself — the focus has to be on you — how you live, how you choose. Once you see your patterns, you can simply stop, breathe, and move down another path.
Clearing Relationship Gunk
Clearing Relationship Gunk — we aren’t taught how to let go. To observe. We’re taught to blame.
Reality Mismatch
We all have developed an internal picture, (or pictures) of “reality.” We stack evidence for the validity of our internal picture. Stress occurs when our internal picture clashes with the external world.
Owning Your Life — Self-responsible as compared to Blaming — Whole Being
Owning Your Life — We’ve been conditioned since birth to blame — to make others responsible for who and where
Having Integrity — Truthful as Compared to Devious — Whole Being
Having Integrity — Truthful as compared to devious — Learning the value of both honesty and truthfulness strengthens your relationships, and is foundational for living a life of integrity
Self Responsibility — The Most Important Step
The Most Important Step — learning to be self-responsible is the only way to go!
Communication 101: Miniskirts, Truth, and The Right Way
Miniskirts, Truth, and The Right Way — thinking you are right gets you precious little. Learning to look for what works — as opposed to what’s right — is a winning strategy.
Thoughts on Letting Go
Thoughts on Letting Go — letting go is all about learning what you can control, and what you can’t. And not whining about it.