Romance is sanitized, socially acceptable lust. It’s also a minor stage in building a deep and meaningful relationship. Romance inevitably leads to conflict, and can lead to a depth that is quite remarkable.
While cyber relationships are convenient, nothing beats face to face dialogue. We’ll discuss both.
Knowing one’s intent is key for letting go of game playing and getting on with the core of relating. Learn how to let go of hiding your intent, as you question your motivations deeply.
You’re on your Own — no matter what you think is going on, your experience is being invented by you.
Getting over Yourself — the focus has to be on you — how you live, how you choose. Once you see your patterns, you can simply stop, breathe, and move down another path.
Clearing Relationship Gunk — we aren’t taught how to let go. To observe. We’re taught to blame.
We all have developed an internal picture, (or pictures) of “reality.” We stack evidence for the validity of our internal picture. Stress occurs when our internal picture clashes with the external world.
