myths, Zen Ideas
The Myth of the Threat of Change — many people fear change, so they stay stuck. Yet the fear is almost always baseless.
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The Myth of Right and Wrong–there are always exceptions to each “rule,” and making a list isn’t particularly helpful
The Myth of Right and Wrong — The Myths Series
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The Myth of Absolute Truth — we hate not knowing, but the reality is, most of life is a mystery to be lived, not a puzzle to be solved.
The Myth of Absolute Truth — The Myths Series
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Life is not as it is. Life is as you are. — reality is slippery and personal. This scares a lot of people, who crave fitting in.
Life is not as it is. Life is as you are. The Myths Series
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Whole Being — Honest as compared to indirect — we think that hedging or being polite is politically correct. What we end up with is a dishonest life.
Whole Being — Honest as Compared to Indirect
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Self-centered as compared to selfish — we need to learn to find our focus, and to bring it gently back to learning all there is to know about ourselves
Whole Being — Self-centered as Compared to Selfish
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Responsive as compared to reactive — reacting on autopilot is prevalent — always has been. Learning to breathe and then to reflect means that we can respond rather than react.
Whole Being — Responsive as Compared to Reactive
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Focussed as compared to scattered — You ever watch people walking along while texting? That’s what scattered looks like. Being focussed takes discipline.
Whole Being-Focussed as compared to scattered
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On Resisting the Urge to Give Up
On Resisting the Urge to Give Up — the world we see is the one we get to live in. Choose well how to do so!
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On Change and Choice
Change and choice are not the same. One is possible… the other is not.