Dropping the Ego — Self-actualized as compared to self-absorbed — Whole Being
Dropping the Ego — The ego wants us to be special, to get attention, and…
Owning Your Life — Self-responsible as compared to Blaming — Whole Being
Having Integrity — Truthful as Compared to Devious — Whole Being
Having Integrity — Truthful as compared to devious — Learning the value of both honesty…
Flexible as compared to blocked — Whole Being
Learning to let go, to go into the flow of life, is like taking a…
Life and Practicalities
Life and Practicalities — What a 10 Kilometer Hike Can Teach Us About Life Darbella…
Dealing with Different Approaches
Dealing with Different Approaches — differences are in our heads — they’re not a part…
Self Responsibility — The Most Important Step
The Most Important Step — learning to be self-responsible is the only way to go!…
Being a Mirror
Being a Mirror is all about helping others to hear themselves by reflecting back, without…
Leap of Faith: Average Joes and Volcanoes
Leap of Faith — Leaping into the unknown is the only way to find yourself,…
Beliefs and Motes
Beliefs and Motes — There is no objective reality. Everything is filtered through our beliefs.…
A Lesson About Growing Up
A Lesson About Growing Up — The goal of parenting is to raise your kids…
Front — Back – Yin — Yang
Front — Back – Yin – Yang- We have within us a range of seemingly…
Communication 101: Miniskirts, Truth, and The Right Way
Miniskirts, Truth, and The Right Way — thinking you are right gets you precious little.…
Making Things Better — Nuance, Beliefs, Circularity, and Choice
Making Things Better — Nuance, Beliefs, Circularity, and Choice — We step out of the…
Mindful Living — Body, Mind, Spirit as Classroom
Mindful living is passionate, engaged living. This article looks at being present in your body,…
On Killing the Buddha
On killing the Buddha — This means ‘being with’ myself as I am, without judgement.…
Be Where You Are
Be Where You Are — The wise person does not know the destination. The wise…
Gentle Support vs. Strangler Figs
Gentle Support — too often, support turns into persuasion then coercion. We propose something more…
Have your emotions. Act responsibly in spite of them.
Have Your Emotions — Emotions are experienced pretty much from birth, … the infant’s emotion…
Infinite Choice — On Waking Up
Infinite Choice — blaming, holding on to grudges, all keep us stuck. Letting go opens…
The Attack of the Why-But Monster — On Waking Up
On Waking up — Why and but are stop words. They are useful for getting…
Awake as Compared to Asleep — Whole Being
On Waking Up — Awake as compared to Asleep It’s hard to admit, but our…
The Finger That Points to the Moon…
The Finger That Points to the Moon… — our internal representations are neither real, nor…
Thoughts on Letting Go
Thoughts on Letting Go — letting go is all about learning what you can control,…