Blue Xmas
Blue Xmas — The holiday season is a high stress time, due to our inability to say no. We might best explore other, more simple approaches, and let go of the drama.
Zen for the Holidays is a collection of hints and tips for dialing down the drama and being present during trying times.
Self-responsibility is hard, as we live in a time when blame is much more popular. Nonetheless, Zen is all about self-responsibility
More Zen Ideas — learning to act on our beliefs as opposed to just spouting them is the work of a lifetime.
Essential Zen Lessons — Coming into presence is the key focus of Zen, and is accomplished in Zazen and “simply noticing. Here we begin to explore the foundations of building an “attentiveness practice.”
Discover Yourself — relating is a process where we get to experiment with what we are learning about ourselves
Real Relating — Finding YourSELF — Most people enter relationships either for what the other person will (endlessly) give them, or to ‘help.’ Neither approach works.
Real Relating — I Wasn’t Going to Do This — learning to work through emotions without turning them into issues is a relationship must
Relating 101 — learning to let go of the past and the future is key to relating… and living
Some Thoughts on Relating — it’s never a power struggle… it’s learning to see, hear, and appreciate, while staying true to yourself