Cyber Relationships vs. Face to Face
While cyber relationships are convenient, nothing beats face to face dialogue. We’ll discuss both.
A Question of Intent
Knowing one’s intent is key for letting go of game playing and getting on with the core of relating. Learn how to let go of hiding your intent, as you question your motivations deeply.
Lust — Caution — The Perils of Romance
Lust — Caution — The Perils of Romance — Most people fall first into lust, which they convert into socially acceptable things like romance and move. This article explores this process of sanitizing lust, and suggests Zen alternatives
More on Letting Go
More on letting go — letting go is detaching from the need to either be right or to control. It’s dealing with the situation at hand, and with compassion.
Cure What Ails You — a Handy Dandy 5‑step Plan
Left to our own devices, we are never better than our list of rules. Right and wrong discussions lead precisely nowhere. Here are 5 ways to step out of this swamp, giving you the chance to free yourself, and let others be.
Swimming in Your own Sauce — about Delusion
Swimming in Your own Sauce — about Delusion — Swimming with Delusion — there is no escaping our delusions. It’s the water we swim in. But hey, it would be nice to notice…
Selfish, Self-aware, Selfless
Selfish, Self-aware, Selfless — it’s not selfish to work on yourself… it’s the only way to shift what isn’t working. It’s essential that we ‘get our noses on our side of the fence,’ do our work, and be real
You’re on Your Own
You’re on your Own — no matter what you think is going on, your experience is being invented by you.
Getting over Yourself
Getting over Yourself — the focus has to be on you — how you live, how you choose. Once you see your patterns, you can simply stop, breathe, and move down another path.
Clearing Relationship Gunk
Clearing Relationship Gunk — we aren’t taught how to let go. To observe. We’re taught to blame.