myths
The Myth of Sex Equaling Intimacy — Intimacy is an act of continual stripping away — of revealing who we are, with total honesty.
relationships
myths
The Myth of a Soul Mate — soul mate thinking is one-sided thinking. Better to find a mirror and get to know yourself.
The Myth of a Soul Mate — The Myths Series
Zen Ideas
Focussed as compared to scattered — You ever watch people walking along while texting? That’s what scattered looks like. Being focussed takes discipline.
Whole Being-Focussed as compared to scattered
relationships
On Being Connected
On being connected: it’s tricky, relating without judging. It takes effort and presence.
Zen Ideas
The Courage to be Happy
Given society’s propensity to think that ‘love’ should = happiness, it’s a brave thing indeed to suggest that one needs Courage to be Happy
Zen Ideas
9 Ways to Screw up a Relationship
9 Ways to Screw up a Relationship — Thinking that my internal reality is dictated by the behaviours or actions of others is silly.
Zen Ideas
Passion for Life—The Body Speaks — we are built in such a way that we ought to see our life’s work—our vocation—as both sacred, and something to be passionate about.
Passion for Life — The Body Speaks
Zen Ideas
The Body Speaks — A New Series about all the things our bodies are trying to tell us. We’ll look at the ways to listen, and what to do next.
Centering — The Body Speaks
Zen Ideas
Blocks to Passion
Blocks to Passion — we are brought up to make finding and living our passion difficult. Here are 5 ways
book promos
3 Riffs on Relating
3 riffs on relating — ideas and concepts about exploring the depth of intimacy that is possible in an excellent relationship.