Get Over It
Get Over It — There’s reality and what you do with reality in your head. All emotion comes from you not accepting what is right in front of you, and working from there.
relationships
Owning Your Life — Self-responsible as compared to Blaming — Whole Being
Owning Your Life — We’ve been conditioned since birth to blame — to make others responsible for who and where
Having Integrity — Truthful as Compared to Devious — Whole Being
Having Integrity — Truthful as compared to devious — Learning the value of both honesty and truthfulness strengthens your relationships, and is foundational for living a life of integrity
Self Responsibility — The Most Important Step
The Most Important Step — learning to be self-responsible is the only way to go!
Communication 101: Miniskirts, Truth, and The Right Way
Miniskirts, Truth, and The Right Way — thinking you are right gets you precious little. Learning to look for what works — as opposed to what’s right — is a winning strategy.
Gentle Support vs. Strangler Figs
Gentle Support — too often, support turns into persuasion then coercion. We propose something more basic.
Thoughts on Letting Go
Thoughts on Letting Go — letting go is all about learning what you can control, and what you can’t. And not whining about it.
The Myth of Sex Equaling Intimacy — The Myths Series
The Myth of Sex Equaling Intimacy — Intimacy is an act of continual stripping away — of revealing who we are, with total honesty.
The Myth of a Soulmate — The Myths Series
The Myth of a Soul Mate — soul mate thinking is one-sided thinking. Better to find a mirror and get to know yourself.
Focussed as compared to scattered — Whole Being
Focussed as compared to scattered — You ever watch people walking along while texting? That’s what scattered looks like. Being focussed takes discipline.