Better relating — 6 Ideas
The Relationship Tango
The relationship tango — the purpose of a relationship is the personal growth of both…
Nothing is Apparent
Nothing is Apparent to anyone else, and most stuff isn’t even apparent to you! One…
10 Quick Examples of Zen Living
Zen and Being Yourself
Zen and being yourself — reality is that which is right in front of us.…
On Finding Your Flexibility
Finding Your Flexibility — Some years ago, the Worker’s Compensation Board in Ontario invited me…
5 Communication Tips
5 Communication tips — when couples have issues, the reason, almost 100% of the time,…
On Just Sitting
Just Sitting — a way of doing meditation that needs nothing. NO counting breaths,…
Learning Meditation for Difficult Times
Learning Meditation–meditation is a skill and a practice that we talk about a lot. It’s…
Cling Static
We get cling static whenever we find ourselves grasping onto something (or pushing it away–in…
A New Model for Relating
In order to have a better relationship, you have to change how you are doing…
Tools for Relating — Having the Best Relationship Ever
Tools for Relating — it’s not enough to have some knowledge about relationships… you need…
Having the Best Relationship Ever
Having the Best Relationship Ever — a look at what’s behind my book, The. Best.…
The Power of Wise Intention
Wise Intention is the bedrock of both elegant communication and grounded living. This topic is…
Dropping Arrogance
Today, we’re using a familiar Zen story to help us to see ways for dropping…
Learning to be Ordinary
Learning to be Ordinary — being ordinary is not boring. It’s using our selves fully,…
The Straightjacket of Delusion
The Straightjacket of Delusion is a funny thing. You only notice it when it’s pointed…
Ideas for Zen Living: 12 Presence Presents
When you’re a Zen Guy like me, you’re constantly thinking about, (and trying to enact)…
About Living Life in Growing Orbits
Living Life in Growing Orbits — Let an expert take you by the hand and…
How to Find Your Perfect Partner
Find out how creating a “List of 50,” will help you to find your perfect…
The Bedrock of Great Relationships
What is The Bedrock of Great Relationships? It’s the willingness to communicate who you are,…
This Endless Moment — Live an Amazing Life
This Endless Moment has been a perennial best seller, and many are the folk who…
Zen — An Alternative to Trump
Sometimes, having another approach to life is crucial. OK, so the world is a…
Learn to Deal with Mind Chatter
Mind Chatter is what minds do. Here are some ways to sort that out Recently,…