Seven Ways to Live in This Endless Moment
Living in This Endless Moment means finding balance, clarity and a sense of purpose and direction. Some hints!
This Endless Moment
10 Zen Principles to Help You Live Life Better
10 Zen Principles to help you live a more calm and centered life, as given to us by that famous Zen guy, Yogi Berra.
Look Wide, Focus Narrow
Preview in new tab Look Wide, Focus Narrow — learning to shift your focus means you automatically see a “bigger picture” Not long ago, I was rooting around in some old photos, and I came upon one of me playing golf. In Scotland, in 1986. I stopped playing golf many years ago, paradoxically after 2 great …
How to Communicate Better Using Dialogue
Communicate Better: Dialogue is a tool for self-exploration. It’s not a way to get others to behave, but rather a way to learn about yourself. I’ve written a ton of articles about communication and dialogue. I’ve focused on how to communicate better in all of my books, and can state categorically that good communication skills …
The Relationship Tango
The relationship tango — the purpose of a relationship is the personal growth of both of the people in the relationship. This flies in the face of the romantic notion that relationships are there to get my needs met. Often, people think that what they see in movies or on the soaps is “real.” Let’s …
10 Quick Examples of Zen Living
Examples of Zen Living — here’s how to simplify your life and way of being 1. One thing at a time Multitasking is impossible. Watch yourself when you attempt it. What you are actually doing is turning your attention from one thing to another, to another, rapidly. And, because changing your focus takes energy, nothing gets your full attention. Experiment: watch your …
Zen and Being Yourself
Synopsis: zen and being yourself — reality is that which is right in front of us. Descriptions of reality are convenient fictions. Want to learn more about this topic? See: Half Asleep in the Buddha Hall As long as you are trying to understand reality or you yourself in phenomenal terms it is not possible. When …
A New Model for Relating
In order to have a better relationship, you have to change how you are doing things. You need a new model for relating. So, here it is!
Tools for Relating — Having the Best Relationship Ever
Tools for Relating — it’s not enough to have some knowledge about relationships… you need tools and techniques to excel at relating. Here’s another sample chapter from my relationships book, The. Best. Relationship. Ever. Enjoy! If you’re looking for a partner that “fits you,” you owe it to yourself to read my book. Find Your Perfect Partner It’s available …
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Having the Best Relationship Ever
Having the Best Relationship Ever — a look at what’s behind my book, The. Best. Relationship. Ever. Back when I was in private practice, three topics came up… a lot: stuff about passion, vocation, sexualitystuff related to getting your life together, andstuff about relationships There’s a lot of bad information out there. I wanted to help more people… …
