5 Ways to Get Your Act Together
5 Ways to Get Your Act Together — Life isn’t easy. We all need help figuring out elegant ways to live
Inner Demons, The Shadow, and Integration
Inner Demons, The Shadow, and Integration — there’s the stuff we know about ourselves, the stuff we resist, and the stuff we stuff, — our Shadow. Working with all of it, non-judgementally, is key for becoming whole.
Dropping the Ego — Self-actualized as compared to self-absorbed — Whole Being
Dropping the Ego — The ego wants us to be special, to get attention, and are on us relentlessly — judging us as failures while spurring us on to do the same stuff. The self-actualized person is able, again and again, to step out of this game.
Owning Your Life — Self-responsible as compared to Blaming — Whole Being
Owning Your Life — We’ve been conditioned since birth to blame — to make others responsible for who and where
Having Integrity — Truthful as Compared to Devious — Whole Being
Having Integrity — Truthful as compared to devious — Learning the value of both honesty and truthfulness strengthens your relationships, and is foundational for living a life of integrity
Flexible as compared to blocked — Whole Being
Learning to let go, to go into the flow of life, is like taking a zip line — one minute standing, the next, flying. And… attached to the line the whole time!
Life and Practicalities
Life and Practicalities — What a 10 Kilometer Hike Can Teach Us About Life Darbella and I often head off for
Dealing with Different Approaches
Dealing with Different Approaches — differences are in our heads — they’re not a part of the situation. Just last
Self Responsibility — The Most Important Step
The Most Important Step — learning to be self-responsible is the only way to go!
Being a Mirror
Being a Mirror is all about helping others to hear themselves by reflecting back, without judgement. I suspect that the