Learning Flexibility
Learning flexibility — stop making excuses for continuing to do what doesn’t work — is an important part of living […]
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3 Riffs on Relating
3 riffs on relating — ideas and concepts about exploring the depth of intimacy that is possible in an excellent relationship.
Ask yourself, “What can I do, in this moment, to bring peace to this situation?”
Bring peace‑a way to find yourself in a grounded and whole manner. It means giving up being right, among other things.
Great Faith. Great Doubt. Great Effort.
Great faith, great doubt, great effort — all lead to new ways of being.
Honesty in Communication
Honesty in Communication — this is definitely a self-help project, as all you can do, even in relationship, is work on yourself.
Creating and Maintaining Relationships that Work
Creating and Maintaining Relationships that Work — relationships that work don’t just happen. You have to commit to making them work. It’s
Letting Go of Boxes
Letting go of boxes: we all categorize, and sometimes that’s helpful, but examining our beliefs is the mark of maturity.
No One is Coming — Life is an Inside Job
No One is Coming to rescue you from the life you have created. It’s your job to stop waiting and to begin moving in a direction you choose.
9 Tools for Relating
Here are 9 ideas to improve any relationship, taken from my book, The. Best. Relationship. Ever.
The Care and Feeding of Relationships
Synopsis: relationships need maintenance. There’s no magic–there’s commitment to a way of relating